Flirting is a great way to get to know your partner online. It adds excitement, and romance into the process, and
usually makes you seem even more attractive. But what if you have never flirted online before? Or if you’re like me and are kind of the shy type?
In this blog post I want share 10 useful tips on how to flirt with girls online. It can be awkward or scary at times when you’re first starting out, but it’s actually quite fun when you get the hang of it.
Tip#1: Make her feel comfortable
Your first step when flirting with a girl is to make her feel comfortable. This is easily accomplished by being open about yourself. Talk about your age, how many people are in your family, and what you like to do for fun.
Show her several pictures of yourself, so she can get a good idea of what you look like. If you have a face book account, ask her if she would like to become friends with you on there as well.
Tip#2: Be positive
The next step is to remember always be positive when talking to her. No girl wants to talk to someone who complains about everything, and has a negative outlook on life. If she is having a bad day, try to cheer her up, making you the go to person when she needs some encouraging words.
Tip#3: Compliment her
Every girl loves to hear they are pretty! As you are talking with her, be sure to compliment on things things like her smile, her hair, and her gorgeous smile. Living with my wife, I can tell you girls spend lots of time and effort making themselves look good.
When you compliment them, they will view those hours looking in the mirror time well spent!
Tip#4: Laugh when she’s being funny
Girls love to laugh, and will often show you humorous things that they find funny. For example she may have been browsing the internet, and saw a fat fluffy cat that is too big to hold. Now while you may not be into cats, smiling and laughing at her picture, shows that you truly are trying connect with her and respect what she likes.
Tip#5: Respond in a timely matter
Something I found out very quickly is girls like a guy who responds to her text in a timely matter. She feels if you are taking to long to text her back, it means you are not interested in her, or you found something more fascinating then messaging her.
If you do have to get up from the computer, make sure you tell her that you have something important to do, and you will get back with her as soon as you can.
Tip#6: Avoid personal questions
As you get further along in your conversation, try to avoid personal questions that may bring up bad feelings for her. Questions like how much money do you make? How many boyfriends have you had in the past? Why do you live in a place like that?
These can be very sensitive subjects, especially for Filipinos since they live in a 3rd world country.
Instead ask her questions such as, what are some of your favorite foods? What do you like to do for fun? Are there any certain movies or TV shows you enjoy watching? Doing this can reveal several different subjects you can talk about, without hurting her feelings.
Tip#7: Smile often
Smiles are very pleasant to look at. When you smile, you in essence are saying you enjoy talking with her, you want to hear more of what she has to say, and that she makes you happy.
Tip#8: Type correctly
Not spelling words correctly and having bad grammar, is a quick way to make a girl lose interest in you. She might also take it as, you are in a hurry to talk with her so you can go do more fun things. Not only that, but having to decipher what the other person is typing, usually makes the person forget what they were talking about in the first place.
So take your time and clearly type out what you want to say, so you both can have a much better experience.
Tip#9: Find topics you both enjoy talking about
Finding subjects you both can relate too, is a great way to insure the conversation never gets boring. For example, if a girl is not into sports, or fast cars she will probably fall asleep listening about it. Same would go for you, if all she talked about were the amazing sales she found at the mall every week.
For me I found out that my wife enjoyed watching the walking dead, so I started watching the show myself and would discuss it with her every week.
Tip#10: Last but not least have fun!
This goes without saying, but when you are having a conversation with a girl online it should be a lot of fun. If you’re having fun talking with her, then guess what? You are already flirting!
That’s basically all there is to it. Flirting is not something you have to over complicate or study for hours to become good at.
Just be yourself, and don’t try to rush things when you first start out. If you do that, and remember to stay positive and compliment her often, you will have girls messaging you left and right in no time.
Have you started flirting with a few girls online? If so what was your experience like? Leave a comment below, I would love to read all about it.