Hey there guys — have you been wondering how to have a girl fall in love with you?
Maybe you’ve been surfing the internet for sometime or you’ve have come across a nice looking girl you find real attractive. Now what do you do?
Your mind probably goes into racing mode thinking of what you should say or do in order for her to become your girlfriend and love you.
Let me tell you right now girls are simple to please once you get to know them. In this post I want to pinpoint some of the key things you can do, that will eventually down the road lead girls to loving you.
So let’s jump right into things here, and give you a few examples of what you can do to make this happen.
Taking care of yourself / grooming
Girls without a doubt love a man who knows how to take care of themselves. I’m sure there’s a girl right now who you’ve got your eyes on, that goes out of her way to make herself look pretty each and every day — and so should you… that is handsome not pretty.
First and foremost make yourself look presentable.
What I mean by that is make sure whenever you see her in person or on webcam do things like comb your hair, wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, and remember to shower and put deodorant on every day.
While this many not apply to webcam chatting it’s important to remember nothing turns a girl off more than her being able to smell you a mile away — and thus your chance of her falling in love with you will quickly disappear.
Not only should you focus on your appearance but also don’t forget about your health!
Girls enjoy being with a guy who looks healthy and has a lot of energy — and I’m sure not only her but you would like the same thing for yourself.
Now I’m not saying you should look like a bodybuilder or have a super strict diet like a vegetarian — but at the very least try to cut back on junk food and find time to exercise on a regular basis.
When you two eventually start going on dates or meet up in person — she will more than likely want to go do lots of fun activities with you — so make sure you have the energy to do so.
All about your body language
Another less direct way you can go about to making girls fall in love with you, is to be conscious about your body language.
When you’re speaking with her face to face try to always show signs that you are interested in her.
You can do things like…
- Keep eye contact with her the whole time she’s speaking
- Smile often and instead of having a serious or worried look on your face
- If you two are out in public together — move slightly closer to her where you’re brushing up against her.
While this many not seem like a big deal to us guys ( I know it didn’t for me ) girls really pay attention to these type of things.
Now that I’ve been married for a few years, my wife is pretty open telling me all the small things she enjoys me doing like holding her hand in public and always smiling around her.
As the old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words” — so make sure the actions of your body demonstrates that you want to be with her and not doing something else.
Be productive and interesting
Girls believe it or not don’t like guys who sit around all day watching movies and playing videos games… no matter how much we wish that was true.
I myself had to make a change in this part of life ( being more interesting that is ) when I married my wife — because she was one who loved to travel and I was more of a stay at home type of guy.
So if you’re someone like me in the past who lives a pretty ordinary life — try to go out and do different things so girls won’t view you as another boring guy.
You can do things like trying out a new sport, work towards your dream job, or pick up an interesting hobby like hiking.
Whatever you choose make it something you love doing and will bring enjoyment to your life. Girls in return are more likely going to want to be with you — because you are appearing to have a happy fulfilled life that they can be part of.
Show qualities to make her fall in love with you
As I mentioned earlier with your body language and how you to do things to show that you are interested in her — the same applies with your attitude when you are around her.
If you’re wanting to make her fall in love with you — then you need to make her feel happy and content that she is with you.
Girls love a guy who can make them laugh and show kindness towards them, and you don’t have to make it awkward by telling her a bad joke either. Just as you two get more comfortable with each other, tell her some funny stories you had in the past.
This is one, going to let her get to know you better as a person and two make her laugh and feel good.
Also by demonstrating other qualities about yourself like how smart you are, and that you can be playful with her — will only make her want to be with you more.
It has been proven that most women prefer guys who have positive qualities like kindness and intelligence, and not so much on how the guys actually look.
So while you should by no means just stop caring how you look — remember it’s more of what you have to show on the inside and not out you look like on the outside.
Accept Her for Who She Is
As you start to get to know this girl you’ve been talking with more and more each day — you’re more than likely going to find things you don’t like or agree about with her.
The worst thing you can do is pass judgment on her or try to change her because it’s not something you agree with.
While you may love playing sports or going to the movies — she may absolutly hate those things. So intead of forcing her to do something she doesn’t want to do — respect her feelings and thoughts and try to come to an agreement you both can enjoy.
You’ll also find out later down the road that if appraoce a girl like this — she will eventually start going to a few ball games only because she knows it makes you happy. And who knows she may actually end up liking it after going to a few of them.
The main thing though is she will do it according to her own time and not do it because she’s feeling pressured or forced into it.
This leads me to the next most important thing you can do, which is getting to know her.
If you do nothing else but learn to communicate and listen to what she has to say– this alone will increase your odds dramatically of her falling in love with you.
Why is this you might say?
Well think about it. Whenever she is having a problem or wants advice from someone — you will be the go to person she can count on for everything.
She can tell you of all the struggles she’s having for studying for her final exam, or she can tell you about her dream of becoming an astronaut one day.
This will develop a type of bondedness between you two that will eventually turn into love if you show her support and encouragement along the way.
So try to accept her flaws and all — and just enjoy her for who she is instead of making her out to be someone she’s not, and you both will be much happier in the end for doing so.
Tell her How Much She Means To You
Last but not least the best way to make a girl fall in love with you is to simply tell her how you feel.
The trick here is you don’t want to do it too early to make it seem weird or awkward, but wait until later as you two start to develop a sort of relationship.
Also don’t overthink it and try to plan out the perfect time and place you want to drop the big, “I love you” to her. Instead just do it randomly like when she’s talking in the middle of a sentence — or say it during something exciting.
If you’ve done the other things like I mentioned before like taking care of yourself, being more productive, and accepting her for who she is… she is going to fall head of hill for you when you do tell her how much you care for her.
So guys do you feel a little more confident on how to make a girl fall in love with you? Maybe you have some other questions you would like to ask me?
Leave a comment below and I’ll be happy to help you in any way I can.